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How Do I Get My Girlfriend Interested in Sex Again?

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Question - (8 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My Girlfriend has stopped wanting sex. It has been a year or more since she was last interested in sex. Nothing has come between us as far as i know and she doesn't want to talk about it. We are good friends and get along fine other than not having sex. We live together in a house we just bought 6 months ago and i don't want to break up with her. It bothers me that we are not having sex, but what can i do to get her interested again? I have thought of trying to get her laid even if it is by a friend so that she will snap out of her slump and be horny again. What do i do?

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A female reader, Hadouken! United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2008):

Hadouken! agony auntWell firstly I'd go against "trying to get her laid" by one of your friends. This might push her even further away, as she might become attracted to other men, or just despise you for attempting to get her to do it. Firstly be 100% positive that she still loves you and that nothing is bothering her. Then try to change things a bit, tell her you love her every day. Make her feel worthy and special. Give her plenty of cuddles and kisses, buy her flowers, chocolates or her favourite things. Do everything you can to make her see that you're crazy about her and that you don't want to break up with her ever. Slowly but surely, she's sure to want to get into bed with you again. It just takes patience.

I hope it goes well for you x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

I really cant believe you are evan suggesting "To get her laid" im sorry but that is just a crappy thing to say. There is obviously a reason she has gone off sex but you need to try and discuss this issue with her and she will be ready in her own time.You need to talk to her and and be understanding and maybe in time you can slowly get your sex life back on track.

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