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I am a helpful person- well i like to believe so! I listen to people and think about how i can benifit them. Currently i'm living in the Washington state (USA). The things that make me tick are: Taking photos! I love taking pictures of beautiful flowers and adorable animals! Also Art, I draw. A LOT! I love anime- the girls are so cute! ^_^ Always so pretty too. When i bring my drawings and art stuff to my art classes i always here "Oh my god! Did you draw that?!" it's flattering! lol. And i love nachos...My favorite food...I once lived off of it for a week and i still L-O-V-E it. Most of all- What makes me tick is my boyfriend of almost 3 years, we're are both dorky humans but arn't we all sometimes!?

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Help with better self esteem without therapy!?!?

Q.   Please do NOT judge me. Okay, so I know I have an eating disorder- not like anorexia- but I won't eat in front of anyone (including my parents) except my sister. I mainly eat infront of her because she was anorexic and I'll do anything to keep her ...

A.   27 May 2009: I've been though this as well... Actually i'm still having confidnence problems today! But i will never cut like i used to, Oh my gosh i had those cuts baaaadd....I will admit... I was.. having a hard time... not only with the way i was feeling ... (read in full...)

Am I that bad at this or is he that difficult to please?

Q.   Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months now. We've been doing oral and recently sex. I have a few questions regarding ejaculation? When I first started giving him blowjobs, before, it took like, 15 minutes, but now i can't ...

A.   27 May 2009: Mhm. "Niki20" Is soo right. now that you've had sex, his body is used to a different type of stimulation now. Nothing is wrong with you =) You are fine and so is he. Its all normal stuff- makes it kinda dumb when you wanna change it up a bit and ... (read in full...)

Views on sex based abortion

Q.   This is a question for those who are pro abortion or against it. I know of a person who has been pregnant 3 times and each time she found out she was having a boy and decided to have an abortion because she wanted a girl. Do you think this is ...

A.   29 April 2009: i believe that taking away a life before it even gets to experience the life it could have had is inethical anyways, but just because it wasn't a baby girl? Either way a child is a child why kill it becuase he/she isn't what you wanted? That is ... (read in full...)

Tempted to cheat on my boyfriend as the sex has dried up.

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and everything was going good until we stopped having sex its become like once a week but even then its not amazing. So i went out to a club and met a fella i gave him my number and we have been texting and ...

A.   29 April 2009: Well my dear, Some love doesn't last forever. Which isn't a very great thing...but it happens, it sounds like you either need to figure out some new things in your sex life to save the original relationship or do something about this thing you got ... (read in full...)

I love my teacher and need some advice

Q.   Hey. So my name's Sina. I'm 17 (turning 18 in June) and I'm madly in love with my teacher... He's my English translating teacher (i'm on a school for foreign language assistants) and he's sooo cute! I think I fell in love with him when he walked ...

A.   29 April 2009: i'm going to tell you exactly what i think you don't want to hear: Everyone gets feelings for someone that they know it would be so wrong and daring to have romance with. Maybe you just think it would be exciting to be with an older man- a fantasy ... (read in full...)

Which birth control is better?

Q.   So here's the thing. I'm supposed to get Birth Control next week. My mom wants me to get the shot but my grandma says it'll make me gain weight and in my opinion, I would hate that, But my mom says it stops periods completely sometimes and really ...

A.   28 March 2009: Here's thie thing there is no Top notch birth control, every one of them are different. Mine is Levora. it helps with minor acne,and i have a 3 day period that is REALLY easy to handle and it happenes the same time each month- (thank god!). ... (read in full...)

Stretch make agony

Q.   Hello! =) I've gradually have been gaining weight, i hadn't noticed for the longest time but then one day in November-December-ish, i noticed i was starting to get stretch marks on my tummy and tighs n stuff, ever since then i've been freaking ou...

A.   28 March 2009: You ladies help me a lot just readng your responses to my question, You make me feel a bunch better and make me smile. =) Thank you. And please do add more! Like your favorite exercise, favorite healthy snacks, etc, etc. Thank you sooo much! ... (read in full...)

Stretch make agony

Q.   Hello! =) I've gradually have been gaining weight, i hadn't noticed for the longest time but then one day in November-December-ish, i noticed i was starting to get stretch marks on my tummy and tighs n stuff, ever since then i've been freaking ou...

A.   27 March 2009: =)i know alot of people have them. I just feel like i could be more confident in my two piece swim suit better without them ha ha. thank you for the tips though! =) I'm gonna give them a try. I hope i'll feel better once they fade! lol. =P May... (read in full...)

Does my apparently flirty teacher like me?

Q.   my teacher is sort of freaking me out. i posted a question like this today but no one really answered it so i am going 2 try again:) any ways my teacher in my school is really confusing me. i don't like him other then a teacher and that is it. but ...

A.   27 March 2009: You deffinatly need to do something about that. He could become a REAL BIG problem- talk to a councelor or someone. Switch your classes around. be cautious- There are teachers who possibly will go to extremities to get to their students... (read in full...)

Could all of them be cheaters?

Q.   First of all, I mean this question with all respect, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I really need to know something and would like to hear other people's opinions. I'm so afraid I will offend someone but I swear I don't mean to. ...

A.   27 March 2009: We all have feelings like this: "ALL MEN SUCK!" or "MEN ARE A**HOLES!" or something of that sort- It's understandable- No one should be judged on their opinion or flare of outbursting. I have a nack for that. ha ha. I personally have no favorites of ... (read in full...)

From a one night stand to a relationship to a booty call?

Q.   One night stand to a relationship to a booty call? Is that what it is? Ok so I really like this guy, hes 22 im 24 i slept with him right away a drunken mess really but we both think the sex we have is awesome. Neway back in June 08 it started off ...

A.   27 March 2009: A relationship only based on sex is an easy way to get your heart ripped into a million or more pieces...Sorry dear but it's true- It in fact sounds like he likes you more and more...If you really want to hold onto him- give him some time. Maybe ... (read in full...)

My g/f says she doesn't want to have sex anymore

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and I am very much in love with her. The other day we were lying in my bed and she started talking about how she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she loses weight. I keep telling her that she is ...

A.   27 March 2009: I feel the same way about myself though...But i don't refuse to have sex with my man- i love him with all my heart... And i don't even understand why i'm down on my "sexy" self. My boyfriend says the same things...That i'm perfect and sexy... I love ... (read in full...)

I'm so ready for sex..but..

Q.   I've never done anything with a guy but make-out. I'm soooo ready to do stuff!!! But i'm scared i'll screw it up, or do something wrong. ughh help pleasee! And I want to finger myself but i dont know how to do that either ha. It's embarrasing....

A.   27 March 2009: Personally if you really are between the ages of 13-15 you should hold off on the penis-vagina stuff- Besides of you wait it will be VERY WORTH IT! trust me hun. ;) If you want to start masterbating or fingering: it's not hard to do just make sur... (read in full...)

Any awesome ideas by my honey's birthday?

Q.   I want to make the perfect strip teasing-make you sweat-burn some calories (ha ha) CD. I like things with a good beat and for this genre a seductive lyrical, Some genres i like are: Hip hop, techno, rave, industrial, grunge, rock, etc. Some band...

A.   22 March 2009: I also love The Birthday Massacre, David Cook, L'arc En Ciel, medic droid, Sean Paul, September...and so on... :D i have millions i can list off... =)... (read in full...)

How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him?

Q.   Im in a relationship with an older man who I love but I think things are moving too fast. How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him. I'm 23 he is 42....

A.   22 March 2009: A conversation is needed between you and him. If he REALLY loves you he would be patient and he wouldn't egt hurt if you talked to him. ... (read in full...)

Any awesome ideas by my honey's birthday?

Q.   I want to make the perfect strip teasing-make you sweat-burn some calories (ha ha) CD. I like things with a good beat and for this genre a seductive lyrical, Some genres i like are: Hip hop, techno, rave, industrial, grunge, rock, etc. Some band...

A.   22 March 2009: Ah good ideas "wonderingcat". But here's one thing: I already have red lights up on my walls. And I ALWAYS have a little sparkly on me ^_^ I never thought of your ideas though like asking about the gel stuff for the lights. Thanks!... (read in full...)

Cant keep hard when entering me

Q.   I have a bf we are dating for more thn a year now, and we started having some sexual problems. He cant stay hard for me or get hard, only if Im blowing him he gets very hard, and when hes entering he cant keep it up, and also just wants to do it ...

A.   22 March 2009: I agree with "OtherStarfish". He may be a kronic masterbator behind you. Watching porn is deffinatly an option, that stuff can screw up anyone who watches TOO MUCH. Also saying tht you are not tight enough isn't a problem it is easy to catch up on ... (read in full...)

How long do you last for sex?

Q.   Heya mates !!! What is the average time for sex? How much do you last for sex? My problem when i 'm having sex i quickly ejaculate. How can i help it? I'm devasted . I 'm NOT enjoying my sex....

A.   22 March 2009: If you are looking for longer lasting, try de-sensitizing gels. Sounds funny-- But just a little bit and you're good to go- Try "Not Yet Dely Gel" from Adam and Eve. the description says: the desensitization helps keep you in control. It can be used ... (read in full...)

Any awesome ideas by my honey's birthday?

Q.   I want to make the perfect strip teasing-make you sweat-burn some calories (ha ha) CD. I like things with a good beat and for this genre a seductive lyrical, Some genres i like are: Hip hop, techno, rave, industrial, grunge, rock, etc. Some band...

A.   22 March 2009: Techno makes MY heart race ha ha ha. Not so much his- he just gets excited watching. =)... (read in full...)

I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm

Q.   Okay well today me and my girlfriend had sex for the second time and third time and I cumed pretty fast the first time so we went again but I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm I want to so bad I just don't know and we tried different posi...

A.   22 March 2009: Hey there, I have the gift of having no orgasm as well when me and my boyfiend "do things" =( It's just me-- Just have her or yourself have more of clitoral stimulation or more foreplay- Find something that really gets her hot and play with her for ... (read in full...)

How do I stop the distance I feel growing between us?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for over a year and a half. We were completely happy before he left for basic training and for a while when he returned. But for the past 3-4 months all we do is argue. We almost broke up and it scared me a lot. How can we ...

A.   22 March 2009: I know how you feel! I'm sorry that seems like a typical thing to say- but it's so true, I would be starting stupid arguements with him for no reason...It got to the point where i was feeling like such a bad person i was less than a CM from him ... (read in full...)

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