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female
age
30-35,
*rinenamor
writes:So I feel like I'm about to cry. So I know that I'm extremly clingy. And everywhere I go and tests I take to see where/what degree I'm in it seems like there's no hope for me. I don't know what to do and the reason I'm sad right now is because the guy I'm interested in hasn't really talked to me at all today. I have this sense of abandonment and being unloved 24/7. I'm really horrible at telling people how I feel because I feel vunerable and they'll just hurt me like everyone else. I've noticed I'm never really happy unless I'm with him. And we're not evening dating yet. He said we would be soon and that he acctually likes me but he hates my clingyness and he knows I'm working really hard on it. But I'm almost positive I'm gunna scare him away. I don't know what to do please help me stop being clingy. I feel worthless.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 I think there might be some underlying issue as to why you feel so clingy. Is there anything else going on in your life right now, or did anything traumatic happen when you were younger?
I think you might need to see a counsellor to get help with this. You might have something that could develop into depression if it isn't already.
best of luck.
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