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writes:I broke up with my friend yesterday, he was annoying. He used to lie about small things for example, the shops he bought his clothes from. He gave me stares which totally freaked me out and would sit very close to me that I could practically not breathe. I think he fancies me because of the stares and he sends me very odd romantic/friendship messages. He is always telling me how pretty I look and if I agreed with something he did not agree with, he would still agree with me even though he disagreed.He is ugly and would always talk bad about others. Anyway I hate him. I want to show him that I love not being his friend which I do. But how?
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reader, kaifu  +, writes (12 September 2009):
Is this a serious ask for 'help'?
That was an extremely heartless thing to do.
If you are not interested in him just tell him you only want him as a friend.
If you don't want him as a friend then just tell him and don't contact him.
Him being 'ugly' is irrelevant (you choose friends based on their looks?) and why do you feel the need to SHOW him you are happy not to be friends, just let him get on with his life and you get on with yours.
Grow up a bit!
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reader, michelle2125  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 easy tell him he is a hatfull jackass and nobody likes him including you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): why be nasty about it? :S
this guy clearly thinks you're special if he likes you. why are you repulsed instead of flattered?
he's probably heartbroken and is wondering where he went wrong. shame on you for handling the situation in this nasty immature manner. you won't be so smart when someone does this to you.
i honestly believe that this could be resolved by simply talking to him. tell him you really value him AS A FRIEND but his behaviour is getting a bit too much to handle as he is coming on too strong.
however if i were him i'd be glad to be rid of you, who wants a friend who would treat them like THAT?
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reader, busy04 +, writes (12 September 2009):
 Firstly, how do you break up with just a "friend"?
And if you guys aren't talking to each other now "as friends", then let that be the end of it. You don't need to nor should you have to taunt him with that fact, that's not called for. It's a really rude, ugly, immature & insensitive thing to do. Regardless of how much he annoyed you or whatever the case may have been, he's still a person that has feelings & you never know what the friendship meant to him or how ending the friendship is affecting him now. He may really be hurt by not being friends with you anymore.
You don't want to be friends, then just let it be, you've made that clear already. But don't be rude for no reason. I hope that you grow up & become a more sensible person.
This may have come across harsh & I apologize if I may have caused offense. But honestly sweetheart go back & read what you just posted here & think about being someone else reading it & see how it makes you seem to them.
Best of luck to you.
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (12 September 2009):
if hes ugly is it really relevant? i mean, who cares? you alreaady broke up the friendship, so just let it go. its not even worth it if he talks about other ppl its probably because hes insecure & lacking in something himself. why do you care? he will probably just talk about you next, if he hasnt aalready.
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