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I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   12 September 2009: Wow this is some serious over-reacting. Good luck finding a guy who doesn't look at porn while in arelationship, it is normal and does NOT mean he is betraying you. I can imagine it is hard for you (esp. women) to understand this. Guys are v... (read in full...)

How do I show him I'm glad that we're not friends?

Q.   I broke up with my friend yesterday, he was annoying. He used to lie about small things for example, the shops he bought his clothes from. He gave me stares which totally freaked me out and would sit very close to me that I could practically not ...

A.   12 September 2009: Is this a serious ask for 'help'? That was an extremely heartless thing to do. If you are not interested in him just tell him you only want him as a friend. If you don't want him as a friend then just tell him and don't contact him. Him ... (read in full...)

Why do they give me their numbers if they don't want me to call?

Q.   Hey I have a big problem..whenever I go clubbing and partying I always get numbers from women. On average I get about 3-5 numbers per night but whenever I call them they usually seem to be more than ready to not talk to me. What's going on here and ...

A.   12 September 2009: Don't pick up girls at clubs... they were probably just drunk when you asked them and don't even know who you are after, and regret giving you it. Find more socially friendly places to meet girls.... (read in full...)

Still hanging on to a thread of hope the my ex-girlfriend will come back to me...

Q.   I've asked questions on here before. The answers have been very helpful, but I'm sure you are all aware, things change. I told my ex girlfriend (who dumped me for someone else) that we couldn't be friends. At the time I said that to her, we were ...

A.   12 September 2009: Move on to a stage where you don't care if she comes back or not. Begging her to come back or just being there for her is guaranteed to fail, find other sources of happiness. Ironically the only sure way to stand a chance with her, is the exact sa... (read in full...)

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