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How do I return the blow job favor to my girlfriend?

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Question - (11 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *dengler93 writes:

My girlfriend recently decided after 5 months of dating that she wanted to go a step farther and give me a blow job. I tried to lick her and she said it was more of a turn off than feeling good. What can I do to repay her physically?

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (11 August 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntJust focus on finding the clitoris first my good man... once you can find it every time you explore down there, then you can worry about what to do with it.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (11 August 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntWhoa if cunnilingus is a turn-off to her you may have a women that is un turn onable. I've never heard of a woman not wanting tounge action...oh well, there's always a first time. I guess you'll just have to thank her with a new car or something, depends on how good the BJ was i suspect.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

person12345 agony auntWhen you say lick her, do you mean giving her oral? Try gently rubbing her clitoris to warm things up and then kiss around her inner thighs to get her comfortable with you being down there. Make sure you tell her how good it smells (hopefully you don't have to, but lie if it doesn't) so she doesn't feel self conscious. Then go for it. The first few times you do it, it probably won't feel good for her. She's probably self-conscious, you probably haven't done it much. But you should be on your way after a few times. Good luck!

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