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male
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13-15,
lover10
writes:i have a 12 year old girlfriend and i need to know how to make her happy so i dont get dumped and, no make her feel special comments.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): You are way too young to be having troubles like this. Why cannot you just enjoy being with each other and enjoy your youth? If she does dump you then there are plenty more gorgeous girls out there. Sorry, but i think you should be enjoying life and not worrying about things like this. Do this worrying when you are older and maybe wiser, or when you are at least over 18.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (14 October 2007):
12 year olds don't understand the deep significance of there choices. They must learn by trial and error. Find a new gf and play the game too.
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reader, thewiseman +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Well. You cannot make her not dump you. If this sounds right. But sit down and ask her what would she like you to do.
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (14 October 2007):
 Hmmm ... first of all, you cannot make anyone do anything.
Second of all, you make people happy because you care about them, not so they'll do something for you (like, not dumping you).
Third of all, whether this young lady recognizes what is special about you or not, you are special. If she dumps you, you hurt, you heal, and you move on. Don't allow her to determine your worth, Mister.
Fourth of all, all girls like to be appreciated for what is important to them. Yeah, a girl likes to hear that she looks pretty, but if you know she's interested in something, ask her about it. Give her the opportunity to show you what's going on in her head and her heart. Listen to her. Every girl wants to be listened to, and hearing is not the same thing as listening.
I wish you luck but mostly, I want you to enjoy growing up at a normal pace. Don't think for a second that your value is connected to having a girlfriend. You are more important, more valuable than that.
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