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writes:Ok, so here's my situation. I'm 18, I haven't gotten any in ages and am fed up to the back teeth of it! Last time was 18 months ago...not that I've been counting or anything. Basically, I'm looking for a bit of advice of picking girls up.I feel like a socially retarded twat even having to ask this. The truth is I'm not really, I've got a great group of mates and I'm not awkward around girls or anything. Thing is, amongst my girl friends there's no one that I can possibly get off with (for various reasons). I'm perfectly capable of being 'the friend' but nothing more, so it seems.The main opportunity to get off with someone is at a club or party. Being summer I've got plenty of these events coming up, so I don't wanna miss these opportunities. I just feel insanely awkward goin up to a complete stranger n starting a conversation avoiding the classic shit lines such as 'do you come here often' n all that bollocks. Some of my mates just seem to have a knack for it, which, evidently I don't have. Just any tips you have for me would be great...before I'm consumed with my own self pity for being such a complete 'tard with the ladies! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): A good way I belive is to be cool and genuine and why shouldent you buy her a drink?
that will show that you care, its the small things be intrested in what shes saying, make her laugh these nice little things will definitly help start somthing good,
Dont underestimate the basics us girls love it we dont like tight men Lol,
good luck
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reader, Artemesian  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Your problem is that you are obviously not attuned to what a lot of girls want - and that is more than just being used for a night by someone who just cares about getting laid. If you want to use em and leave them in a night then you're really going to have to up the charm, confidence and looks. Some girls do just want what you do but the majority want more than just a night of sex that probably isn't even very good - so try using a website aimed at particular wants ie flings, one night stands etc where people just want to meet other people who want that rather than waste time and money in the club scene. Good luck I hope you find people with a like mind as yourself and not just use and upset girls who get fooled by you.
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reader, Ask and you shall receive..(well,ill try my best) +, writes (21 June 2007):
 well,my friends had thid problem last year aswell,and what they did was they got a job taking care of the foreign students that come into our country to learn english. Lets just say they made ALOT of new friends that Summer!;)Or i know one move that always works on me,i dont like guys chattin me up,so what i like is when a guy just comes up to me at a disco and eases his way next to me and slowly starts dancing with me...no awkwardness,cos we'l b having fun dancing and then i turn round to give him my front and we get off,its Very simple.And u dont need to waste any money or cheesy pick-up lines!and u might get her number at the end of the night...I know it works cos all my friends fall for it too!Goodluck!;)
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Go to google, and type in fast seduction. You will find a website that teaches you pickup (a number of them actually) that will teach you to pick up WITHOUT having to buy her anything first.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 June 2007):
 If you in a club offer to buy a lady a drink and ask how her evenings going. If she's interested in chatting to you then she will :)
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