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*olidus
writes:So I'm friends with this girl who is gorgeous, intelligent, witty, and just all around awesome. She's casually seeing someone, but they're not official. We've been friends for a couple of months and we always have a great time together and talk for hours when we hang out. I'm incredibly attracted to her. Anyway, I'm in no way a player, have only had 2 girl friends my whole life and they were both long term relationships. So, I still get nervous when hitting on women or whatever. My question is how do I make a move on my female friend? Should I take her to a club or something and try to kiss her? Neither of us drink btw so there will be no loosening up to get the courage up or lower the inhibitions. Does anyone think they can help?
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reader, Solidus +, writes (16 April 2011):
Solidus is verified as being by the original poster of the question We went out for sushi dinner alone the other day. She's my friend, so obviously she'll say yes to going out with me, the problem is how do I take our relationship to a more intimate place without cornering her or scaring her away? IE kissing, etc? She's model pretty so she gets hit on all the time by random dudes everywhere (which she hates). She's told me she'd never date someone she didn't know. such as a stranger trying to pick her up. She also told me deep stuff like how her father committed suicide. She must really trust me to tell me something like that. But anyway, I'm getting off topic...how do I kiss her or something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): Ask her out for coffee or lunch man and have her meet you at the place. That shows interest but ntohing overwhelming. Then again I hail from mars, and women from venus :P
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reader, lovehurtsbutitgetsbetter +, writes (16 April 2011):
just go out to eat or go to a cafe or something not to romantic but casual and explain to her how u feel it may b nerve racking but still it'll b worth it if u guys get together!!! GOOD LUCK!!
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