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writes: How to enjoy something I hate?I have small breasts and most of the advice I've got from both men and women is to "get over it and enjoy what you have". Great in theory, but how exactly do I do I do it if I really DON'T like my breasts? They're small, and I really wish they were large, mainly because I have huge hips and a tiny waist and it looks weird, and well, because most guys like them big better (from what I've seen).My ex liked bigger breasts better and I always felt like utter shit when he wanted to tit fuck me. I couldn't, they were too small to create the amount of friction needed. This made me feel like he wanted a bustier gal. He also sometimes made comments about how hot Katy Perry or Fergie were. Now I feel like I hate him, since we broke up recently, and every time I see or hear a video or song by them, I feel so damn ugly and unsexy.But the worst was when once he asked me whether my breasts had shrunk, and if there was anything I could do to fix it, and to stop losing weight (I wasn't overweight, but definitely NOT anorexic either!) so that I wouldn't end flat chested. That time I didn't ask for his opinion about my boobs. He said it out of the blue! I swear I feel like I hate him. It's probably due to the general break up thing, but I hate that he criticized me like that. I wish I could just go over to him and tell him a thing or two. I'm really pissed off. I know it's not entirely his fault that I hate my boobs, but he was so damn untactful!So as vain as it may seem, and as stupid as you may consider it, but how the hell do enjoy them? Because I'm not having implants (I haven't had kids AND I've heard plenty of men say they hate implants 'cause they feel like plastic). I'm not flat, but I'm small by society's standards.
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reader, sammyo  +, writes (11 May 2010):
I have a 34B set of boobies and I used to feel disproportionate. I have 40 inch hips and a 29 inch waist. Wearing different clothes helps, though. Fitted jackets, flowy shirts, stuff that hits below the hip, etc. Honestly, I used to hate my shape until my boyfriend came along. He flatters me to death every time I mention my hips/breasts and I've grown to love myself the way/shape I am. I think that's what a lover should do (encourage). He hurt you mentally and deceived you into thinking that you aren't wonderful the way you are.Take a look in the mirror and find what you love about yourself and see what makes you YOU. Who cares about boobs when you have a great attitude/personality. Someone worth your time will love you for the imperfections that make you special. Diversity makes us appreciate how we are. Just be glad with what you've got.
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