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I'm learning psychology in my spare time at the moment and am starting a course on it at university next year. i'm afraid i don't have any real qualifications yet but i'll try my best to help

My dad used to hurt me and I can't let anyone get close to me, please help

Q.   gee...well i've never actually used one of these before. um...hiya, im 17 and i went out with this guy for 2 years who i've recently broken up with. and he was great, y'know? and i'm pretty sure i loved him but the thing is i got terrified of how ...

A.   2 January 2008: Thankyou very much for your responses =) they mean a lot to me. the only problem is that i don't want to go for councelling because i don't want my parents to know how much it's affected me. i know that sounds odd but i don't want to worry my mum or ... (read in full...)

Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship?

Q.   Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship? Could this make you more open to abusers? At what stage is it safe to let someone know that you were in an abusive relationship? ...

A.   31 December 2007: I know past experiences can have a big effect of the present, but unless you think it's being particularly harmful to your relationships i don't think there's any need to tell them. if it means you want to take things slower then just tell them ... (read in full...)

My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?

Q.   I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...

A.   31 December 2007: I don't think there's any need to involve his family, and i'm not really sure of how this works, but i *think* notifying the police of past events may be an idea, just to make sure that if it does happen again then they have a record of it to refer ... (read in full...)

I just want to be single and see what is out there...but my ex loves me and won't leave me alone.

Q.   I recently broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I had realized that instead of being tied down to one person i wanted to enjoy the rest of my high school experience single. Ever since the day i have broken up with him, he hasn't left me alone. ...

A.   30 December 2007: TRy not meeting up with him so much if meeting up seems to make ihm worse. after all, if you;re not around he can't try to make you do things. just go out with other people more, spend more time with your friends and make time to enjoy being young ... (read in full...)

Do you think this flirty guy loves me??

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy always flirts with me but when he says he loves me it hits me with a good feeling inside. One time he asked me If I loved him back. I shrugged because he made me feel shy. I like him a bit. Do you think he really ...

A.   30 December 2007: I think love is something that grows from knowing someone a long time, but it can be easy to think you love someone when really its something else. I also think that you're really the only one here who can tell whether he does or not, it depends who ... (read in full...)

How do I keep her in mind but not irritate her independance??

Q.   My girl broke up with me after thanksgiving. She admitted she just not sure what she wants. She does need to get her life straight no doubt. But i'm in love with her. She admits she loves me too. She is just screwed up and I know it. I knew it ...

A.   30 December 2007: If she knows how you feel about her, then there's nothing else you can do. if she wants to come back to you then she will, but if she knows that you love her but still doesn't come back then maybe she just wants to be independant more. good ... (read in full...)

My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?

Q.   I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...

A.   30 December 2007: hiya, i think a lot of people will say what they think you 'should' have done so firstly i want you to try not to beleive that you've done anything wrong in not acting sooner, noone wnats to beleive that the people they love can do anything wrong ... (read in full...)

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