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writes:Hiii guys :) Well I guess I'm gonna have to admit; I am the typical boy crazy teenager. I've liked a lot of guys for a LONG time. One day I think I love one the next day another one. :P Anyway. Recently at like the beginning of the year this new girl moved into the neighborhood. We're *kinda* friends, but not like besties or anything. There's this guy. Let's call him Jacob. He's the player kind. New girlfriend every month cheating kind. We dated a while back like when I first started dating. We've been friends for 3 in a half years. No other girls really are close to him except me he's one of my best friends. Anyway this girl she likes him. And acts like they've been friends for ages when she JUST MOVED IN. She makes me so mad because she doesn't even know him except his name and she thinks he's hot. I guess I'd be lying if I said I didn't like him. How do I stop getting upset over this?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 You trust nature :), like you said you fall in love quite often so don't worry, as soon as you'll have found a new object of desire, you'll move your focus from Jacob to the new boy. Then, you are growing up and maturing , so who knows, maybe the next one will be the one you fall in love with for real...
Also, if Jacob is this cheater/player type, poor new girl, she's more to be pitied than envied. Better her than you, she's the one who's going to have her heart broken and be taken for a ride, not you, you 've been there gone that and you got smarter now, you know what's best for you, right ?:)
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