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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok. im down in the dumps because theres a guy i seriously like. i cant be with him mainly because we work together. hes one of my managers. we both agreed months ago just to be friends,. yet he has kissed other girls in work. he hates it when i fall out with him. he always gets me to tell him whats wrong so he can try to help me if he can. bt i can never bring myself to tell him that i still like him. i think he knows anyway. i tried twice to apply for a higher job within the business and he blocked me. then he said he didnt want me to fall out with him over it. hes always chatty, friendly and cracks jokes with me in work, and occasionally even flirts with me. but when we are outside work, at parties or just normal nights out, he wont speak to me. he barely even brings himself to look at me! yet he'll start chatting and joking with me the next day in work. im trying to work out what way to take this guy. any help or advice greatly appreciated. thanks!*note from moderator: This was originally one single long run-on sentance with some text-speak thrown in. I had to spend considerable time editing it and just trying to figure out where the sentances where! Next time I may not be so generous and may just delete the question. Please write in complete words and complete sentances from now on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): It sounds like it to me, this guy is playing you. I know the type you're talking about, but girl you have to let this one go. If hes not willing to make you number one on his mind, then you need to forget him and find a guy who is willing to battle for your heart. It sounds like it to me, that your always going to be attracted to this man, but if hes just going to tease your feelings like this, then hes obviously not the man for you. Your young. You'll find another guy who will always be there for you. Instead of this guy who only talks to you certain parts of the day. He probably cracks jokes and talks to you, because hes tired at work and he needs a laugh. but girl dont you let this guy get to you. I mean, you sound like a good person and you dont wanna be stepped on by this guy whos just stomping all over you.
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