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writes:i used to be a strong woman i raised two kids by myself then i met someone and they changed my life for the good at first but now i can see im in an verbal and emotional abusive relationship i am also in thousands of pounds of debt where i never was before, i accuse him of not loving me i try talking to him but he storms off and has satyed away for four days.but now im starting to loose weight i need my confidence back im scared of going out by myself or do anything without him which i no is wrong, can someone advice me of how i start getting the old me back, cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): HI,
This is very hard. You are realizing now, what has probably been going on for awhile now. At least the lightbulb has gone on, as it were.
Now, this is what you have to do. Make a list of all the people you trust. Go talk to those people and tell them what is going on--get their opinions. 2nd, make a get-away plan. Stop worrying about what has happened, and start worrying (planning) what you are going to do from this point forward. You can worry about how you will reduce your debt as soon as you get away from him. It will still be there when you get ready to deal with it.
Good luck.
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reader, puss00 +, writes (8 March 2009):
puss00 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u gina deep down i no i have to get him out of my lfe but easier said than done, i am going to try and take mtself out more even if just for a walk i think i knew everything u said before but i have no one to talk to so i just needed someone to give me a kick and i thank u for that, tomorrow is a new day xx
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