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male
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writes:HeyErm, i dont know what to do regarding this girl...who is my best friend and i have had a crush on for about 2 years now. It started as a crush and then escalated into true love. She is the one i want to spend my life with. However she doesnt see it like this and has had numerous boyfriends. Each time she has said that she has a new boyfriend, i have been involuntarily sick and have felt depressed for days until i have been able to sort myself out. I cant be doing with the pain that i go through each time she has a boyfriend, but i cant bring myself to move on from her, just in case of the small hope that we may be an item in the future. Does anyone know what i could do?thanks
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reader, Emi:3  +, writes (15 June 2008):
if i were you, i would just try and get my feelings out there. if you're nerveous about that then you should at least drop hints that you like her. Tell her that her boyfriends make you feel sick. you sound really sincere and sweet, if she cant return that, its her problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): my friend had the same problem...her best friend was a guy and she had a crush on him...she said 2 him that she dosent wana loose u as a friend but i really like u...then try asking her if she feels the same way about u.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (14 June 2008):
 Oh my gosh, i thought my situation was bad.
I really feel sorry for you. Well if it was me, i'd confess my love to her, tell her everything you're feeling at the moment and try to move as far away from her as possible, that way you know you've done what's best for you, no more heartache from the boyfriends she's seeing and you know you've told her everything you needed to say for a clean start.
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