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How do I get over my first?

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Question - (28 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 36-40, *eefee stush writes:

hi am 22years i had sex for the first time in march ,but it's like dis i think i like dis guy more than he likes me,he said that he has feelings for me but too me it doesn't show.since we started having sex he had sex with two other women and came back and told me, huh?how do i get over this guy?he is like my first everything, he is the guy but he is really hurting me,i don't want to tell him how i really feel for him to take advantage of me i've stop having sex with for about a mouth now we were in a relationship but how do i get over him now?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009):

Im sorry to hear this, consider yourself hugged

Well to get over my first gf, I cut contact with her to allow me to move on.

As I felt bad, I distracted myseft by playing a long RPG (final fantasy 7) its quite long and detailed so by the time I finished it, I felt better.

The best way is to just let the sadness out, have a good cry and start something thats new and different. Do not stay in contact with him.

All the best

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