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writes:In my Sophmore year of high school I thought that I met my dream girl and my future wife. All through out middle school I was very self conscious and i would get nervous around every girl I talked to. Once I met K that all changed for me, she was the first girl that a genuinely loved talking to and I felt comfortable and my true self around. K and I instantly feel in love and We ended up having sex within the first three months of our relationship. After the first 6 months of dating we were having sex almost everyday and things have been really rough lately. We have been dating for over 2 years now and I’m attached to her but I know that our relationship isn’t good for either us. I’ve broken up with her 4 times within the last 2 years and I always seem to come back to her, and I always feel the need to be in a relationship when we are broken but I try with other girls and it feels like nothing will really ever be the same with any other girl. When I break up with her I miss her so much I can’t let her go. I’m going to be going off to Graduate in May and I want to get out of the relationship but I feel attached to her and that I can’t let her go. Even through all the bad stuff we have put each other through I still love her so much and I can’t stand not being with her. My New Years resolution is to get over her and I’m doing everything I can to make it easier for me. Thank you for reading and helping! Reply to this Question
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reader, ashleighkaylin +, writes (13 January 2018):
 I think it might be because you had sex that you got so attached. For you, if you did it everyday, you could get almost addicted to it! You can also make that a huge part of the relationship too. And what if you got her pregnant? Then you'd really be attached to someone bad for you! What's going on that makes it that you're bad for eachother? Write down all the good things about the relationship and rate them 1-10 on how good they are. Then rate them on how important they are. Can you get those things elsewhere?? Write down all the BSD things and do the same thing. Are there people who you wouldn't have those problems with? Can you give up sex until you graduate? Can you get the nonsex things through friendships?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2018): Younglove is the hardest. But the truth is it seems like you already know what the right thing to do is. Extra sticking with it. So my best advice is to surround yourself with friends or a hobby that will take up more of your time. Being single isn’t always easy. But it’s nice to learn about yourself had the independence to go places and do things without checking in with people or answering to somebody else. Enjoy being single at your young age. Life is way too short to be tied down and so serious.
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