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female
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41-50,
*1llybabes
writes:How do I get him back?I have posted on here a few times now. I was in a LD relationship with an amazing man for nearly a year. But due to my stupidity it has now ended. We have had a roller coaster ride. I was going through a divorce, my Dad has cancer finding out within a week of knowing him. I found out my ex had been cheating on me for years His ex is much older than him and has no one so he tries to help her as best he can. I was an over thinker megative all the time. Then I sorted myslef out with some therapy and 2012 was going to be my year. But the minute he told me his ex was really ill on thursday I flipped and out came all the past. He ended it with me by text. Saying he was trying to forget the past and concentrate on the future but I keep rubbing his face in it. I had gone too far. I begged him and begged hin tried to call everything but nothing. I text and asked for a last chance and left it. Last night I knew he was at his exes, he text me two pictures of some mobility scooter batteries he was helping her with. Surley this means he cares to prove to me he is not cheating it must be. I asked again for another chance and again he said its too late, forget him and move on. The last i text was this morning saying sorry and I would like a trial and one last chance, saying that if it doesnt work then I will break all contact forever, I mentioned all the good times we had had and how he has told me the things he loves about me that hes never had before. I asked him not to give up on me and all the good times and to please give me one last chance to prove it to him. I never thought he would end it, I was a fool, took him for granted and i know now but I think it may be too late. I asked him to not say no straight away and please to think about the trial as the last year cant be wasted. What do I do now? How long do I leave it? He must care to have texted me right?I just want to show him how fantastic we can be with a clean slate. Its all my fault :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): Move on girl. Don't lose no slee about it. He made you insecured for cheating and doesn't want to deal with the monster he created. I hope th therapy you did was done for yourself and not for him. SO now you can move on to someone who will not do those things to you and will protect you always.
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