How do I get him to view me as more than a friend?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So, I have been friends with this guy for approximately 6 or 7 months. Up until Halloween all we had was a strictly platonic relationship. I invited him over for a small get together on Halloween night and we ended up making out. Afterwards we still spoke and were still friends then about a month later he had a small get together at his place and invited me. We ended up sleeping together. I spent the entire night, and then we both had to do other things early the next day. I didnt speak to him for about 2 days. I txt'd him. He said he didnt want it to ruin our friendship and we agreed that it wouldnt. I have been back to his place several times. However, Because he is the first guy I have ever been intimate with and not been in a romantic relationship with I am unsure of how he veiws me. I really think I may be falling for him but I am afraid that he thinks I give in too easy. He says I am awesome...But he never tries to contact me by phone, email ect...So does he think I am a slut? How can I get him to veiw me as more than just a friend?

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