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writes:What do you do when your boyfriend (of 7 years) won't stop with the sarcastic comments?He has comments about my stretch marks, saggy chest, belly, mommy pouch, butt, ect. (We have two kids, I am 26 years old) ALL the time, sometimes they sound sarcastic, sometimes they don't. I have been telling him for AT LEAST 6 months to stop, they are bothering me. Sometimes in tears, I 'stomp" off and go to bed. He won't stop!He quit smoking, and in the past 4 months or so, he has gained 30lbs, from eating so much, heehee, and I would NEVER sarcastically say anything about.It hurts, and I have told him almost on a daily basis. Why don't he listen to me and stop?
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reader, cupcakecuttie  +, writes (21 June 2010):
I do agree, but maybe also deeply he feels badly about himself, so maybe he feels the need to take it out on you. Don't let him see he's getting to you, cause he will probably only do it more. Sometimes men prey on what they think is weakness. So even though you might hate it, next time just laugh at him and know you are better than what he is telling you.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (21 June 2010):
GET OUT!!!!!!! You leave. Thats what you do. Thing is even if he does stop if he really loves you he just wouldn't say those things about you in the way he does. I hope you can just find the strength to leave his sorry ass. If a man loves a woman he don't say that stuff to her.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 June 2010):
Because he has no respect for you and isn't listening. You can't make him change. This is who he is. So I think it's time you looked carefully at the relationship.
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