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writes:So my boyfriend says he hasn't been in the mood for sex lately and that the last few times we did it he didn't really want to. He says it isn't me and I believe him. I can easily get him hard, but he just never wants sex anymore. This has been going on for about a month now. I don't want to seem like sex is the most important thing in our relationship, but lately I've been getting really horny and I feel like he doesn't want to touch me at all. I don't know what to do about it. How do I get him in the mood....dressing slutty doesn't work, being naked doesn't work, dirty talk doesn't work, nothing works. He says he doesn't know why, he doesn't even ever feel like masturbating he says. And I know he isn't seeing anyone else and I truly believe him when he says he loves me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): There are some good products available (specially some of the herbal ones)to increase the male libido.
Why not get him some?
Good luck!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Are their stresses in his life? Work, money, mortage, kids etc etc? Worry is a real libido killer.
Try and talk to him about what is in his mind lately.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 I don't know his sexual inclinations, but a bit of gentle sado-masochism might help? Tie him up in bed and tell him you're not going to stop until you've fully taken your pleasure.
HTH
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reader, loveguru23 +, writes (25 June 2008):
Try to communicate with him and find out what exactly would he like you to do to get him in the mood. If he doesn't know, then it's possible it's a psychlogical (stress, too tired, etc) or medical condition (erectile disfunction, side effects of medication that he's taking, etc).
Daniel Amis, Author & Relationship Coach
www.relationshipadvice4you.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): your bloke either is messing about or your relationship has run its course im not being nasty but you need to face up to reaility your friend lu
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