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anonymous
writes:My ex of 18 months split up with me a month ago. Basically, she got to uni and ended things. Not in a horrible way but she just wanted her freedom. She said she still loved me when we split and she didn't want to lose me completely. Anyway, we text each other once or twice a week. It's pretty friendly with no emotion but I want her back. Anyway, she text me today asking when I'm back home for Christmas. I know we could make things work again but how do I get her back without seeming too forceful?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): Bro,Live move on, Dont "hope" she will come back, do SOMETHING!Spy through your fren, check whether she is still single. If she is still single than GO AHEAD. If not, she just busybody want 2 know who you are outting with.As i said dont lock yourself to this girl,(unless she is the only one who love you) PLEASE give more opportunity to other who might be waiting you for long time. dont get blindfolded by her bcoz of that 18months long(sorry, if this is your FIRST girlfren). GO clubbing (GYM, OMEGA LEO, SPORT, social, NIGHTFEVERCLUB )and open yourself to the world. you will see more valuable things than thinking of her.Now is not the time to know whether she will accept you not. remember 14Feb is the MOST IMPORTANT DAY for you to recognize whether she will still accept you not.Longtime togo Bro. BE GENTLEMEN.i broke up with girls, and girls dumb me. Out of all time, they said "you are good....""I still love you..."there will have lot of only idiot will believe reason to tell you that she dumbed you KINDLY.with one reason behind, "if she fall on her new relation, you can always be REPLACEMENT" isnt that scary?I hope this not happen to you.DOnt overthink she will be back not, let things go naturally.She always want to prove trillion time that YOU LOVE HER more than she do.All of the above mentioned is not true if you are her first boyfriend.
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