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Hi I'm Lola and I live in England,Liverpool.

My personality is happy,funny,mad and kind.

The reason I wanted to be an agony aunt was because I like helping people with situations and making them feel better.

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My boyfriend's parents hate me!

Q.   My bf won't tell his parents we're back together. Last time we were together they bought him off and he broke up with me. Now we're back together after a few years and of course, both of us have changed. His parents, however, have not. They still ...

A.   4 July 2006: If they lovetheir son they would want to see him happy even if it means that he goes out with you.There not the one your going out with it's their son and if he's happy with you they should be too! Discuss this with your bf. His parents should back ... (read in full...)

How do I outlaw my in-laws?

Q.   I'd like to get peoples advice on this...what do you do about your annoying, nosey inlaws? Im talking about your spouses parents. My inlaws always look for a way to see whats going on in our marriage so that they could butt in, rule it some how (my ...

A.   4 July 2006: Tell your partner how you feel, but don't hurt their feelings. Tell them you don't want them judding you on everything you do because it makes you feel like you cannot be yourself. They should understand and talk to their parants and then you can ... (read in full...)

Feel like I'm going to be all fingers and thumbs when it comes to making the next move... ?

Q.   Hiya me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over a week and I know that he has done things with his girlfriend in the relationship before and im a complete virgin but want to take the next step with him. I really want to give and receive ...

A.   1 July 2006: There is a first time for everything. Everybody gets nervous their first time even your bf did! But just relax and don't rush into things you are not ready for. *lola* ... (read in full...)

I said some nasty things, but now I realise my mistake and want to get back with her!!

Q.   I left my girlfriend 4 months ago for another younger girl and lied terribly to my ex, she had no idea. When we split up I lied to her for months about their being anyone else, we were still in contact as we had to discuss our house. She knew at ...

A.   1 July 2006: You have treated your ex badly. But if you love her than i think you should go for it! Tell her how you feel and how you were wrong and that you regret everything you said or did. Make her feel loved and wanted and make up for all the time you ... (read in full...)

When I married my husband I knew I wasn't really attracted to his looks, Now theres this guy from the gym whose perfect!

Q.   Please help me I am ina real dilemma. I got married 8 months ago to a really caring nice man who is 8 years younger than me, but I will be truthful, he has never been my ideal man looks wise although I find him attractive but we have always got ...

A.   1 July 2006: I think that you shouldn't go out with somebody because of their looks. Personality is more important. If this guy you like hasn't got a nice personality then it's not good. *lola*... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and want to have sex with my boyfriend. Or do I?

Q.   I'm 13 and I keep feeling like I want to have sex with my bf. We've been going out for around 5 months (give or take a bit). We tell each other EVERYTHING and we're best friends. But anyways, all the time I keep feeling like I want to have sex ...

A.   1 July 2006: You and your boyfriend might love each other and care for each other and tell each other everything. But if you have sex at your age you will regret no matter how much you love him. So my advice is don't you'll have plenty of time when you are ... (read in full...)

It's been a year since we met and connected so well. He's not a creep, but we have distance and an age difference separating us!

Q.   Okay, so when I was on vacation, I was sixteen and I met a guy who was 23. We didn't know each other's ages at the time, but really hit it off and connected well. When I had to go back home at the end of my vacation, we exchanged e-mail addresses to ...

A.   1 July 2006: Age doesn't matter it's a number! It's what you and your heart want, if you love him and he loves you go for it! Age or distance shouldn't keep you apart from the person you love. *lola*... (read in full...)

How do I get a man to like me for more than looks

Q.   I know a man whom I am deeply attracted to both physically and to him as a person. However, though he is just as attracted to me physically,( He has made this clear for the past two years now but I haven't done anything about it as i know he would...

A.   1 July 2006: Hi Michelle, i think that you should sit down and talk to this guy,tell him how you feel. If he does not react then move on there are plenty of other guys out there taht will love you for your personality aswell as your looks. ... (read in full...)

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