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writes:Confused. So I have a good, old friend. We caught up in summer. We hooked up(kissed cuddled etc) and have kept in touch a lot. We had made plans to meet up soon. We live in different towns. We went on what seemed like dates in the summer and he was romantic and affectionate. I was opening up to the idea of something romantic with him and was hoping our planned meeting would lead somewhere. But, he then tells me yesterday he got drunk and had a 3some. So now he's still coming to meet me to hang out, tickets are bought. But the romantic side of things is not going to happen now, I don't want to do anything like that anymore. But because we crossed that line in summer and have been talking so much it's weird. I feel like its going to be awkward. Its shown he does not take things with me seriously or he wouldn't have done that and he would have been pursuing me more strongly. But now we are in thus awkward in between where I want to be friends sure but not close like we have been. I guess it wad a fwb thing and I should just stop talking to him less often and start dating new guys. I really want a boyfriend and husband in my future. So I don't want this weird not sure what this is thing. I don't know. I'm a messed up person relationship wise. I seem to attract men who use me or don't treat me how I want to be treated. I've learnt to move away from these bad types of relationships now. But how do I find the right kind of relationship? FML :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2014): I believe you only get treated how you let yourself be treated. So be confident and demand respect from guys. As for finding the right man I sometimes i think when you look to hard it pushed what u want away from you. So I think you should just enjoy being single and do things you enjoy like maybe going out with your female friends and stuff, and just let the right man come to you naturally. Just a note im a little pyschic and highly intuitive so my advise is based on that too, and I see you in a relationship soon with a man who treats you nice.
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