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writes:hi probably not the best site to post this, and imagine ill get some abuse, basicly my mate works at a shop and has started bringing a few friends out with him for me and our other friends to meet, we all smoke weed (his new buddys included) we go to my mates house about 3 times a week have a joint watch a film chill out. one of his friends is absoulutly gorgeous, smokes weed, loves football, gaming likes all the music we do, and the more we got to know eachother the closer we got obviosuly, now we usualy play fight and casualy flirt, but on a few occasions while high (sometimes not) me n this lass share the sofa bed, and we usualy curl up snuggle up and watch the film, while flirtingly tickle pucnh and nip each other under the covers, nothing aggresive or mean just messing around, we allways get out feet tangled together purposley and have ended up spooning before allways keeping contact, but my question is (lets bear in mind, im 19 nearly 20, im like a dog on heat) how do i take it that one step further? make it a bit more 'intimate' if you get me? i know she has had quite a few one night stands and friends with benefits, all that stuff, but i just find it so turning on to be in a room full of people under the duvet 'playing' with each other, no ne the wiser, and i was just wondering if you have any tips on how to initiate anything between us? or to find out if shes into me, obviously im not gunna just stuff my hand down her knickers, but is ther like techniques for initiating anything or to find out if she is up for some fun? cheers
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (19 February 2013):
It should be natural, she's obviously into you. Just do what you think makes sense, keeping in mind her feelings.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (19 February 2013):
 You have already been spooning, and given her history the next step shouldn't be difficult. Public sex is not everyone's cup of tea. You should take her to your place for the first time. If you are not sure if she likes public sex and you go ahead and take off her clothes when others may be watching, then she might look at you as a person lacking self control and you will never get a chance to taste her. Or you could just wait until everyone leaves.
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