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writes:Girls, the new woman am seeing,don't, like it when guys fall to quick for her, she tell's me, I do have feelings for her, so after sex, do I tell her I love making love to her, or I like fucking her, that sounds cheap to me, with out feelings, am romantic, you know poems, open car doors, flowers, thanks again girls
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2015): There are a number of things you could say,
a. Thanks
b. Again
c. That was fun
d. Nothing
Or you could say nothing and let the passion of body language say it all.
I personally would go for option d and keep her in suspense.
As your lady is saying quite a few different things to you by her comment about not liking men to fall too quickly for her.
Possibly like
a. back off and give me space
b. you don't own me
c. you lucky .......
d. I am an experienced woman and have had many men
e. I am manipulating your thoughts early into believing that I am a wanted woman and you may have to fight for me.
You are obviously a romantic and this is in your favour, however i would keep the flowers for special occasions and wine for yourself.
Just be you and be happy, and enjoy the naturalness of your togetherness. "Que Sera, Sera"
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 November 2015):
 Do you need to say anything? If she doesn't like it when men fall for her too quickly, then my advice to you is to try and understand why. Perhaps it is something in your behavior that changes, perhaps she doesn't like all the romance etc. If you're a romantic guy, and she doesn't like romance, also think about whether or not you're compatible. I don't see how you can be happy with her if you're not allowed to express how you feel or be yourself around her, but have to fake not liking her....
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (5 November 2015):
“I like fucking her” is most certainly a no-no, unless you want her to feel absolutely awful. Telling her that you love making love to her? Yes, much better. After sex a woman is not unlike a man: she wants to feel special, to know that she’s pleased her partner and to feel contented. Give her lots of reassurance, tell her how much it meant to you and how much you care about her. Sex is only ever half about the biology: meaningful passion is about communication, emotion and openness. You say that you’re a romantic, well great: be romantic.
I wish you all the very best.
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