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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I need some advice. I am twenty eight. I have been in a relationship for two years. For the most part we have a good relationship. But I lack trust in him. I don't believe that he ever cheated, all though i caught him talking to an ex about a year ago. They text and all that jazz. Miss you, love yous ect. I told him if he does it again I was done. Short time later same girl same story. I stayed in the relationship. During this time I distanced myself from him. I have a really close guy fried that I have known for six years. Always had a attraction but we were never single at the same time. Over the last few months I have fallen in love with my friend. I am a hundred percent positive the feelings are mutual. We have been talking for several months. At this time the boyfriend is now giving me everything I had ever asked for and putting alot of effort and emotion in our relationship. I'm in love with two people... how do I decide before I lose them both?
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reader, luckycharm +, writes (4 February 2009):
 he sounds just like my ex... he use to have girls that he would say that to but he was sleepin with them or something. I know it is a tough decision because once I decided to leave my ex alone, he wanted to leave all the other women alone and call and text me everyday and become the man that I have wanted him to be the past 6 years. You have to decide who is best for u and ur happiness. It sounds like the friend is the one but I am not sure. Deep down u know and no matter how bad it hurts, make the best decision u can...
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