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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:There's this other girl who's 2 years older than me (let me say she's Girl A) at school. She always judges me and claims bad things about me. We are both acapella singers, so we are part of the school choir. Last week friday we had music competitions at my school, we were competing with other learners from other schools around. There was a girl (and thats Girl B) who is not involved in the singing competitions, she came with her phone at school (while phones are not allowed), then someone stole her phone. She was searching for it everywhere, they even involved the police and i was talking to the other girls (Gal C and gal D) that i sing with. We were talking about girl B who lost her phone. I was like 'she got what she deserved' thats when girl A overheard us speak, she then asked whom we were talking about. The other girls(C and D) told her then she said to me 'wow, how could you say that? I thought you were innocent and a good person. Anyway she will still get her phone back and theres nothing that you can do about it' rudely . I was surprised but then i apologised she didnt even consider my apology she just looked at me very bad. Ever since that day, shes always judging me in everything that i do or say (rudely). I dont know how to deal with her at the same time dont cause any quarrel. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 She obviously found your comment quite rude and now she is just being rude to you. Am sure it will dye down in time. Just ignore her every time she says something rude to you, she will soon get bored if she is not getting a reaction from you.
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