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writes:Hey guys ,why do people hate people? I am thirty. I met different kind of people in my life. I didn't have that many problems with the people that I met. Even if I had, we solved the problem, forgave each other and moved on. Lately I met bad, bad people. I feel like part of them they have animal genes. They made my life miserable. I lost my job because of them, I lost the people I love because they lied to them, and the people I love believed them. I used to be a happy person; now I am sad, alone and mad and I have hard time to trust people. So what would you do if it happened to you? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): I wouldn't trust anyone too much for now and get on with my life doing what was right according to my conscious. Marines: 'lead, follow, or get out of the way'. Do your own thing, be true to yourself, and you will meet people like yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): Well that's family for you !!! I would and I have been the happy person i always was...i have had the devil's claws rip my world and life apart in many ways and every button that could be pushed done deliberatly and often by those we trust. :) ....are you gonna be defeated in life by YOURSELF??????I say yourself because you hold the key to your own happiness....let go of the hurt and the betrayal and don't let your heart close or you fall even more. Get up and begin again i think it's called ,Pheonix rise out of the ashes.....Be the happy person you are and do things that make you happy...you lost your job , do something different, meet new people...live! a colourful life and understand you can heal yourself.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 March 2011):
 If it had happened to me then I would show them that they have not won. I would hold my head up high and get back out there and meet new people and develop new friendships. If these people you loved chose to believe these liars over you then they are not worth it. We all go through stages in life were we bump in to bullies that make our lives hell but we just have to get on with it and move on from it. So this is what you have to do. You need to accept now that they are not worth your time or effort and go out and meet new friends who are genuine. Yes I can see why you may have trust issues now but believe me not all people are back stabbing liars and we need to go through a bad bunch to make us realise when we have good honest friends. So dont let it get you down accept that they are horrible people and be glad that they are out of your life now.
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