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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been drifting apart for nearly a month, and today I found out that he has been flirting with a girl who is actually a friend of mine. I know for a fact that he used to fancy this girl before going out with me, and today she told me the sorts of things hes been saying to her This didn't make me as mad as it probably should have, because the truth is I've been flirting with another guy for a while, and i'm actually meeting up with him this weekend. I want to end things with my bf so badly so we can both move on, because we clearly aren't working, but we rarely ever talk at school any more and i know if I bring these things up on msn he will deny it, and i'll end up losing my nerve how do I break up with him in a way that wont end with us both hating each other? is that even possible?
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reader, L VIC  +, writes (24 September 2008):
dont talk to him any more for a wile both of you are flirting to diffrent people so just live it like it is an move on there is no need to break up you guys dont talk to eachother any more
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reader, shiraz +, writes (23 September 2008):
hiyahh just be honest with him the fact that your both flirting with other people shows that what you used to have in your relationship no longer exsists and although any break up is hard your both already moving on before you have! (if you get me) if you want to remain friends then just tell him that sometimes being friends after a relationship doesnt always work espically depending on the honesty in your relationship something that towards the end you both lacked?! but if you want it enough then it might work your doing the right thing neither of you want this any more so let it go hope it goes ok xxx
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reader, Hopeful Romantic  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 Say, "You know what, I think your life is trying to take you in a path seperate from me. I think there are things your heart desires that I cannot give you, so I think we should just be friends from now on. You have been good to me as I have been to you, but I don't see us working out as a couple any longer."
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