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writes:Okay my Agony Aunts, I come back with yet another Issue. My girlfri- well i should say my fiancee have been intimate for a few months now, we've bypassed the friend zone and foreplay and she tells me im not rough enough for her. Now im a genuinely nice guy but i also find it a tad bit difficult to always get in and stay in? i mean im about 5 inches 5 1/2-6 erect but its just difficult! She wants to do doggie style next and im really nervous. I guess what im trying to ask is how do i be more rough, how is doggie style done, am i long enough for doggie style and what are easier ways of um mm entering? Please help as soon as you can. I really want to please her and give her what she asks for =) Quick Responses would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): Chigirl is right. "Fit" has everything to do with your anatomies. Length has little to do with it. 5.5 to 6 inches is enough to do any "normal" position, including doggy. Some women's vaginas are, for lack of a better description, "deeper" up in their pelvis while other women have their labia and vagina very prominent. The latter allows easier penetration. Girls with a large behid are also a bit harder to enter even if you are decently endowed.Being rougher may mean several things. It could mean hard slamming, it could mean hair pulling, smacking or biting, or it could mean dirty talk and lots of vocal stuff...or a combination of things. Make love like you are a bit angry at her and see what effect it has.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 September 2011):
 This is something you learn through trying and failing. You'll get the hang of it soon, don't worry! But there are bound to be a few mistakes now and then, but they are normal. Don't let it worry you!
How you stay in and enter and all that is entirely dependent on yours and hers body, and how you work together. There is no straight forward answer that can be applied to all. You just have to try and fail and find out what works for the two of you.
If she wants things more "rough" however, just be more firm. Grab at her firmly. be assertive in bed. Tell her what to do, take charge, find your dominant side. Press her down under you and lay some of your weight on her to make her feel small. Women like that sort of thing. Of course, never against her will, but if she doesn't complain then it's ok.
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reader, Thelaird1  +, writes (13 September 2011):
 Have you asked her what she would like?
Being rough depends on the girl, so not rough enough for 1 girl may be too rough and quite frightening for another.
Smacking on the backside is good with doggy, as is hairpulling.
My fiancee likes it when I pin her down holding her throat and a few light slaps. This isn't really the type of thing I would normally do, but she loves it. Whereas it would probably scare a lot of girls.
You really need to speak to her and find out what she would like, before you try anything she could possibly hate.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 September 2011):
 Just quietly... when you try doggie style, give her a little spanking, just a little tap on the ass to say "who's your daddy".
60% of the time it works every-time.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (13 September 2011):
 i think you should watch some porn, this will give you some tips on how to be more rough. if you have never done doggy before then you should try it to see if you are long enough, but generally doggy is said to be a good position for men with short penises, so give it a try. if it doesn't work or you both don't like it, at least you have given it a go
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