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How do I appear confident and sexy in bed?

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Question - (8 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so im a virgin and im uncomfortable in some ways example: i dont like when he tells me to take his clothes off....because im a little shy...and i dont feel comfortable moaning....do guys like when a girl moans?? anyway i want to seem confident and sexy...any tips on what guys like because im clueless lol

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A female reader, Jesc United States +, writes (8 May 2010):

Jesc agony auntWell, He is right, Do not fake moan. Not just cause he will not like it but you won't in the future. Think about it. If you fake moan he will think he is doing a great job when he is truly not. Moan when it feels good for you. Cause if you don't he'll or she'll keep doing what they think is right to you. You'll never be able to "get off". Just have fun with it. If you feel that your partner really love's you or likes you enjoy yourself, that's what so many people forget now-a-days... Sex is more than lust. You must feel good about yourself. Have fun, explore your body first. Tell him what feels good first. Then work on him later tho.

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A female reader, Madalo 1 Malawi +, writes (8 May 2010):

He asks you to take his clothes off?He's really cool.Some guys just strip off their clothes in a second,which i find is not a sexy thing to do.You're new at this so you'd be naturally shy.But you can just make up your mind to be bold and he'll find that sexy.When your kissing him,let your hands play in his pants.Go down on him even when he hasnt asked,he'll be surprised and pleased.With time,you'll get less and less shy,then you'll be comfortable to experiment new things.As for moaning,only pleasure is supposed to make you moan.If you're feeling what he's doing,you'll moan but you dont have to fake it.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (8 May 2010):

baddogbj agony auntOnly moan if you really feel it. Few things worse in this world than a fake moan.

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