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How can my girlfriend not feel anything?

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Question - (25 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2011)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my girlfriend says she does not "feel" anything when i touch her vagina...what does that mean???!! um so much worried...what should i do???

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2011):

pay close attention to her clitoris rub gently in a slow circular motion then as she gets more turned on get faster the vagina does not have nerves itself so that will be why she cannot feel anything hope this helps

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (25 June 2011):

YouWish agony auntActually, that's to be expected in a great deal of women, since the vagina isn't where the feeling is. You have to touch and rub her clitoris for maximum feeling. That is where the pleasurable nerves are, not the vagina. Imagine if your girl only stimulated your scrotum thinking that it was the only way to stimulate you, you'd be screaming for her to put her hand around your penis and pay attention to it. Likewise, that's the same effect if you only focus on the vagina.

It takes a lot of skill to find the g-spot a few inches inside the vagina, but to start out with, the simple act of moving your fingers in and out of the vagina like you think a penis should won't do much.

Find and pay lavish attention to the clitoris. Remember to keep your hands clean, no fingernails, and STAY ON the clitoris and the area directly surrounding it.

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (25 June 2011):

RedAthena agony auntDoes she mean she doesnt feel excited, or she can not tell that you are touching her?

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