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How can I tell my friend he's being worked over?

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Question - (23 October 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, *ina newman writes:

I need some advice on how do you tell your best friend that the girl he is stuck on is not good for him? I am a female, a couple years younger than my friend. Here is the story we will call him fred and her wilma, wilma is 26 and in prison at this time. fred and wilma met about I'm guessing 2 years ago.

Well he had spoiled her with gifts, attention, respect all that a real man will do for somebody they care a lot for. During the time they were together as b.f and G.f she had been sneaking around with an ex of hers at first she was just writing to him cause he also was in prison, she kept this from fred, she was asking fred for money to pay her mom's rent when actually she was sending the money to her ex in prison. This went on for some time then the ex gets released from prison and so much for fred he was very hurt so he took her to small claims court for some of the stuff that she had asked him for, not the gifts he had given her it wasn't for the money that he did this it was to make a point that you just can't do that to people.

The car he bought her she tried to put into someone elses name but he didn't want her car. Anyway he won the case and shortly after she gets arrested with the ex and he lets her take the fall for his drugs( what a man eeehhh) so those two go back to prison and while she is in there after all she did has the nerve to call fred and reel him back in knowing he had these feelings for her and she is working him for all she can get. He travels 200 miles every weekend to see her puts money on her books, sends her whatever is allowed, I'm speaking from experience, I worked my ex while I was in there, it's all prison talk and fred bless his soul is falling hook line and sinker all over again. How can I help him see what's happening?

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