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writes: ok... my boyfriend tried to finger me and it was really weird. I thought he'd know what to do to get me into it but he went straight to trying to penetrate. It was kinda rough and i dont even think he got very far if anywhere. We are really close and he'll only do what im ready for which is great but even though we can usually talk about anything im afraid i'll feel strange bringing this up. How can i tell him how i feel without making him feel bad? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): Guys always think there "doing the right thing" when it comes to sex... it does not mean they are bad lovers, it just means that no one has ever told them what 'was' right before or they have never done it. Next time it happens, try to guide him, not with words but with your hands, sounds, and body movment... when he gets something right, the noises you make or the momvents you make will let him know you like it!... Eventually he'll learn... :) Good Luck
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):
 dear reader i think you should talk to this guy don't bottle things up or he will never know how to please you always be open about how you feel in a sexual relationship don't panic about making him feel bad just try to word it like your trying to guide him into what you want to feel you never know he might just do the same thing if he feels weird with anything you do belive me you'll laugh about this afterdon't worry just relax sex is suppose to be fun remember good luck xxx
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