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How can I talk to him? He's playing the "start & stop" game

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Question - (8 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hiya, well this isn't really a problem, but its annoying me big time... theres this guy in his first year of college, and hes absolutely gorgeous, we started talking last year sometime and he's really nice and always complements me etc and ive met him a few times, but then we stoped talking for about 3-5 months, and started talking again about a month ago. Now, i think hes trying to play with me slightly, and its working! He starts talking to me, then suddenly stops, he starts texting me and again suddenely stops! i'm asking really how i can play him at his own game, as its clear he doesnt like clingy girls, but i just want to talk to him! if you can help that would be awesome! thanks :) x

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A male reader, FroggieGman United States +, writes (8 March 2009):

You're wasting your time. You say he's "gorgeous." Well sounds like he knows that too and is being narcisstic. You don't need that, you answered your own question, he's "Playing you."

Good Luck

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntThe ball is in his court now, if he likes you he will make contact, in the mean time see other people, you might find a guy you like who doesn't mess you about, and if you do find someone else, well he'll learn not to mess girls around again.

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