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writes:hi... I just wanted to ask everyone here bout wht should i keep in mind during first time sex. me n my bf have been away frm eachother since 3 yrs as he was out of country. as he is cming back, he is desparate n im shy n very tensed. so can anyone tell me wht all things to keep in mind or any suggesstions for making him feel gr8 as we'll be meeting after such a long time. he might b xpecting a lot. plzz im in need of some good suggesstions...
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (4 February 2008):
 As I keep saying, making love is a natural physical expression of your love for each other, so however you want to express youself, feel free and enjoy it!
If he's missed being with you, he'll just want you close and he'll be happy with whatever you do. Whether you want to slip on some sexy underwear, take charge or just lay back for an affectionate missionary, the main thing is that you do something you are comfortable with.
I would suggest you wear your favourite undies under some clothes he can easily undo. Have a nice meal together, some relaxing conversation to catch up and a little wine... Then go with the flow! Bear in mind that first time sex for a man is usually a 5-minutes affair, though, so you might want to go for a passionate quickie first. You can always share a bath afterwards and try some underwater love! You have to be very relaxed for that though, otherwise the water will dry you out.
Have a good time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
You need to make the atmosphere as relaxing as possible love, Candles and incense lovely soft music, Before you see him have a long hot bath make yourself relaxed and feel great, Dont leave a great deal of time doing this so you have hrs before you meet or you will just get tense hunny, make sure you keep yourself busy untill he arrives. And when you are about to make love just let nature take you over, Be at one with your man dont worry about anything just let it happen and be yourself. If you are yourself you cant go wrong darling have a lovely time and totally enjoy every minute TAKE CARE HUNNY WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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