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writes:Well today is my birthday and I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months or so, but he seems to have forgotten. What should I do?I do not want to immediately freak out or anything and start yelling or screaming but I can not help feeling a bit hurt.I only told him once it was birthday about 3 weeks ago and then just left it.He is normally very romantic and thoughtful, always asks me how I am and takes me out on amazing dates. I last saw him a week ago when he told me I was the most amazing girl he had ever met and the best ever. Now I have not heard from him in a week.He is pretty busy at the moment. He is doing a triathlon in the next couple weeks and is training hard with that and not going out that much because of that.What is the best way of handling the fact he forget my birthday and mention it to him casually? Reply to this Question
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reader, GotSomeAdvice +, writes (13 July 2009):
GotSomeAdvice is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, for the answer.
Well I was thinking of saying my ex called me the other day for my birthday but I wasn't sure if I should go out with him or not (ha,ha).
You know be a bit mean let him know hey I well if you are not going to take me out some other person will.
He has forgotten as it is 9pm at night, no phone calls today, no nothing.
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reader, babymama99  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Just say something referring to your birthday like "I treated my self to a nice manicure on my birthday YESTERDAY, do you like it." I'm sure he will be horrified that he missed it.
I'm sure it was an honest mistake. And whose to know he may be planning to surprise you this evening!!
BTW: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! from Babymamma
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