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How can I make sure he asks me out instead of her?

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Question - (23 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

hey, i really need some help

there's this guy i REALLY like and he just told me the other night that he likes me too, but the thing is there's this other girl he likes to, and i think she likes him aswell...

he's probably going to ask one of us out really soon, how can i make sure it's me?

please help, i think i love him...

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A male reader, guillaume  United Kingdom + , writes (24 April 2008):

guillaume  agony auntHi,

Yes, ask him.....suggest just something light like a coffee. (Starbucks, nero, pret etc) No harm done, and as he likes you it looks like he will say yes. G.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008):

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so everyone thinks i should just ask him, yeah?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008):

Definatly ask him out first. If he says yes then well your problems are solved! And well .. if he says no then at least you know he wasn't right for you.

To be honest, the fact that he says he likes another girl aswell may not make the best start to any relationship if you do start going out ...

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntDon't mess about waiting for him to make up his mind. ASK HIM OUT.

Men can be so absolutely hopeless, particularly young ones. Throw caution to the winds and grab him first.

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A male reader, guillaume  United Kingdom + , writes (23 April 2008):

guillaume  agony auntHi,

Ok...one guy...two girls. The situation seems as if he will choose soon. How would feel about asking him?????

Something light like a coffee? (he says he likes you)

From what you've said, you need to get in first!! The coffee could stake your claim!

All's fair in love and war!

best wishes, G.

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