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writes:Split with b/f of a year because he isn't in love with me,but wants me in his life as a friend as he can't imagine his life with me not in it.Anyway,we were trying the friends thing,but it wasn't working as I am still in love.As we were such goood friends,i didnt want to lose him completely,but things were eating away at me and we had a big argument via email,where things were said on both parts but mostly by me that weren't meant,and now we are not even talking.I didn't want thing to end on a bad note,and not because I want to be in contact with him,I know that is not possible for my own good,but just as we meant so much to each other,it would have been nice if we came out of it thinking highly of each other.So,my problem is it is eating away at me that we have ended on bad terms,but I dont want to be the one to apologise in case he thinks I am chasing him and clutching to straws whcih i'm really not.Can anyone advised best plan of action so that we can at least walk away from this like two grown adults and not resenting each other Reply to this Question
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