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male
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Ok, new girlfriend, new start, mindlessly love her, we are both very close with each other and enjoy each other's company. We've been together for a month and a half, we've both been in sexual relationships before, and i'd like to have a passionate random crazy sexual experience for our first time together....But i'm not sure how to get started, can anybody help? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Tisha-1  + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
 Honestly? If she's crazy about you too, she's going to be nervous, so the best thing you can do is make sure you're in a great place--make her feel safe and secure and love her up!
I would ease up on some of this self-induced pressure you've put yourself under. Just relax and let things happen. If you spend a lot of time planning things to be just so, inevitably the reality won't match the fantasy. Get the set up right, good bed, good lighting, food/drink nearby, everything clean--sheets and loo spotless--and smelling nice, candles are good, rose petals well maybe, music, think about all of those and do what you can. Then bring her there and let it happen.
Lucky girl. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, satin i have already lost my virginity and so has she, i meant its our first time together...
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reader, satindesire +, writes (4 November 2009):
 Sex is not like in the movies. I seriously doubt your first time will be as enjoyable as you hope...I've never known anyone who actually had the 'crazy passionate' time you're hoping for. Sorry to say this, but you shouldn't get your hopes up.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
Good sex comes with practice. First time means you have had no practice. Read my article, I've provided the link above, it's got pertinent sexual information you'll need about your first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): first off , its only crazy mindless passionate clutching at the sheets type sex if your really in the moment and you guys are both there.My advice is it will be for her if you focus on her. Start slowly, kissing touching and build up slowly, no need to talk watch her body language and be gentle and considerate, whatever she enjoys do that and tease her. The main thing is to make her feel sexy, to feel loved and to feel like you actually want her so badly and want to please her as well.I dont know its a hard one to answer ,
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