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30-35,
*zzy samm
writes:im not a virgin but my girlfriend is. weve tried but it hurt her too badly. i heard that using lube or having her take a hot bath prior can help reduce pain. do these things work and is there anything else i can do to make it easier? Reply to this Question
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reader, ChristineD. +, writes (7 December 2008):
 It will be very hard for her if you two just jump into the sex part. Take a while for some foreplay, Maybe 10 or 15 minutes, or till you guys are both really really in the mood, or even till she tells you she's ready and wants you. Just always remember to let the whole thing be at her pace! Next time you two try, tell her your'e not going to push at all, just let her kinda guide you, or tell her to tell you when to go in a little bit, just let her know shes in control when she loses it to you.
Good luck and have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): bear in mind that even if she is experiencing pain she might not tell you because you wants you to enjoy yourself- dont let her be in pain
if she is not wet enough then dont do it
you must wait until she is completely physically and mentally ready for you- that is isnt nervous or getting cold feet at all- totally wants to do it- and is producing natural lube which will lessen or take away any pain
most girls will feel pain in their first time some lucky ones wont feel any
be gentle and respond to her body language
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (3 December 2008):
Lots of foreplay so she is really turned on and lube will help. If going slow isn't working try one fast push then stop and kiss her forehead and face and mouth as she waits for the pain to stop tell her you wont move until it stops and when she is ready to continue you will.
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