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writes:My girlfriend and i broke up the other day on good terms after a long good relationship. She says she just needs to figure some things out, we are still friends and still see eachother. I'm just wondering how to let her know that I am willing to wait till she is ready and be with her again? I don't want to rush things I just want her to know That I will still be there when she is ready for a relationship.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Unless she says its okay to wait for her, I would move on. You're both teenagers (from your age) and it seems like there's a lot of living to do before either one of you is ready to commit to a serious relationship.That's why she will see you, but she doesn't want to get involved in something permanent and its likely she doesn't want you tied down waiting for her.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (28 August 2009):
I agree with anon over here..
Serioulsy you cant appear desperate, and lonely. Why would ANYONE want that? If you sit idle and wait for someone to say ok I want you back now..
Thats kind of twisted. Think, like, you are on reserve or something if they dont find someone better... you see the dilemma here?
Its not some matter of being so in love ill wait forever. If your so in love, you dont seperate because your worked up and "need to sort shit out"
That doesnt even make sense. If your in love you stay with the person, and you dont risk losing them forever by making them sinlge. Why would you?
I think you should explore other options and remember you are worth it. You are someones dream relationship.
Dont ever be second place.
-iydm
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (28 August 2009):
 I am going through the same thing though it is my boyfriend who i broke up with as i needed to sort some things out in my head....we still text and meet...he always lets me know im here for you etc....give it time the fact your meeting is a good sign means there a chance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Well youmay like this girl and she obviously likes you ut in what way remains to be same.First thing no woman wants to have a guy at her beck and call. and you saying that youll be there is a promise you cant kep because as hard as it may be to believe you may meet someone else tommorow. She has decided to break up. Now you need to feel sad that its over and move on. If she wants to get back with you, then fine, but you need to show her that your a man and that your nobodies dog.I hope this helps, trust me Im not being cruel I spent a long time waiting for someone and IT IS NOT WORTH THE WAIT.
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