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How can I let go of my fears and just trust my boyfriend?

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Question - (22 September 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. He has never given me a reason to not trust him, we've never had even a fight, but I'm terrified he will cheat on me. He is in a different, nice country right now for a few months and I just am so scared he will get lonely, find a nice girl and... you know.

I told him I am insecure. He said he would never do anything to hurt me.

How can I let go of my fear and just trust him! We've dated for a year and he has been very honest and loving the entire time...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2014):

Difficult question but if he's never given you a reason to distrust, then trust and believe him. In my experience, you can usually see the cheat or the guy who has the need to get women's attention early on. Keep in touch with while he's away. If he loves you and treats you well, respects your feelings, etc., consider yourself lucky and don't spoil it.

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