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writes:How can I learn to "squirt" when I orgasm? My bf really gets turned on by this (and no, he has never asked me to learn or anything, I want to try to learn on my own). We are both in our middle 20s and have been dateing for over 2 years, and are very serious about each other. I have heard some diffrent theories on how women can learn to squirt while orgasming, and I was really wondering if any female out there has taught herself how and how I could also learn. Some of the theories that I have heard is that it can be done through the g-spot, and anouther main one is to just not hold back that "needing to urinate" sensation right at the peak before climax. Please note that I do not mean the regular getting wetter while orgasming, but an actual squirting out of the cliterous (much like how a male cums, but obviously without any sperm... or urine). So please, if you know how I might ACTUALLY acheive such a thing, please let me know, but please no speculations.thank you very much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): just want to say i learn how to squirt trust me ir's not pee when i first did it i was shock i was very relax it it just squirted every where now i don't know how to stop squirting when i have a orgasm i have alot to cleanup
but it feel sooooo goooood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Hi there
I have actually taught other women to squirt and I can currently squirt up to 8 or 10 feet. I work for a company in Vancouver (Canada) which offers squirting lessons, either one on one or workshops with a few women. If you are interested the site is TaylorsLadies.com (its a stag company but we do squirting lessons)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): I was masterburbating when it happening and when i cam
i just rubbed my clit and it all came out
it was weird at firs i was kinda like what?
but it feels awesome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): I squirted for the first time about 20 years ago while masterbating. I thought it was pee, but cuz it felt so good I kept doing it anyways. Then I had my first child and could not do it anymore. I therefore think it has a lot to do with muscle control. It was not till about a year ago when I was with my new husband that it happened again. Now I know what it is and thank my stars that I can do it again. The key for me is hitting the G spot, and stimulating my clit at the same time BUT not letting myself have a clitoral orgasm. Hold out for the G spot orgasm... you will be glad you did
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): Be well-hydrated, relaxed, and please note...you don't squirt out of your clitoris. It's still out of your urethra (the same opening you pee from), but it's not urine (some say it doesn't have ammonia like urine does, but is otherwise identical). In addition, have you partner learn about locating your g-spot (if he's found it, you will feel a sensation of pleasure and like you need to pee). Use a vibrator on your clitoris if you'd like while your man is fingering your g-spot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): yeah...squirting is somehting you can do without realising! tht feeing u ha when you hold back, don't do it n you'l be able to squirt! its sooo fun but messy
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I was able to achieve this once I tried fisting....It was amazing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): My boyfriend made me do this with his hand. It was bloody amazing, I felt so incredibly sexy, he said I was the first woman he's ever done that too. Needless to say, Im now the 'queen' in his eyes....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): I taught myself.All you have to do, is, when you feel like you're about to climax, push down, as if you were going pee, and hold it.Keep stimulating either the clitoris or the g-spot, until you feel that you're ready to cum, even then, DON'T LET GO.Keep pushing down until you can't anymore and your orgasm comes full blown, once this happens, you'll squirt!At first it will be just a little bit, and you may accidentally stop yourself naturally, because you think that it's urine. It's not!Go pee before sex, empty your bladder so that you KNOW it's not urine!Keep practicing!Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): I've only managed to do this with one particular boyfriend who i felt really relaxed with and who turned me on. There were only two postions i was able to do it. The first was with him lying down and me on top. I had to lean backwards instead of forwards so that his penis was hitting my g spot in the right place and then i had to to totally relax while he was being totally patient waiting for me to do it...it actually feels as though you're going to pee but just go with it...the other position is with me on my back,him on top and am my legs up on his shoulders - so he's thrusting deep into me on my g-spot...all this has to be done slowly.... Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): sorry babe its not something you learn to do,it never happened with my ex husband,but from the 1st time i slept with my fiance it did and it felt fantastic,you have to be totaly relaxed,comfortable and turned right on,but its a rare thing only few women can achieve this
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