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writes:hi all, how can we understand that a woman is sexually interested on a man. as frequent guests we used to touch or sometimes stand closer etc. but I tend to feel that this woman has an attraction on me. but this is an intuition.are there indirect questions that I can ask to her to find her intentions. or do I have to look for a specific body language.the reason is that I do not want to ask openly and be in an embarrassing situation. Reply to this Question
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reader, sunilal +, writes (30 August 2012):
sunilal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionagain to make it to a clear point.... I believe that when we are sexually interested in a person we may show involuntary behaviors and talks, without we knowing that we are expressing.I was wondering how women normally expresses it. this is not about a woman heading and asking a man that I want you to have it with me. But, she may accidentally tell something though she try not to show her feelings.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (29 August 2012):
 I don' agree that "if there is any doubt, there's no interest". Some woman maybe. I don't make it blatant until I'm sure a guy likes me, and even then I'm pretty shy!!
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (29 August 2012):
 there is nothing more obvious than a woman being interested in you. they say the most blatant things. if there is any doubt then there is no interest. wait until you are sure. the reason it is like this is because men usually make the first move therefore women have to make it painfully obvious that they want the man to move. if you are an idiot like most of us men are you won't pick up on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2012): I stand close to practically everyone and I will from time to time touch someone I am speaking to or someone I am friendly with. I may even flirty with them. None of those things mean that I want to have sex with them or even date them.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 August 2012):
 In my experiences, it was never too much of a mystery that a woman was interested. As you suggested, she may stand closer - and look you in the eyes. But you might try touching her, put an arm around her, and see how she reacts to that. There is nothing wrong to being rejected - it may happen throughout life. but you may be surprised that a woman will respond.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 August 2012):
 I can only tell you what I do to be certaing that a woman is s*xually interested.. That is....
I look right in her eyes. ... and I give her one of my innocent, boyish smiles.... If necessary, I wink at her. Then, to "seal the deal" I sidle over to her and say, "So... didn't we go to different schools together?"
THAT is the beginning of a TERRIFIC night for her!!!!
Try it. Good luck....
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