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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi hope you can help! I need advice on talking to a male friend of mine. I really like him and all signs point to he likes me, except we dont talk much. I would like tips on how to talk to him online. he doesnt talk to many people online anyway not unless he has something to say thats important or once every blue moon to catch up with people. Thing is, and this you may think is ridiculous but i know you tend to say how are you? u been up to much? etc etc. But how do i develop the conversation from there? Hes not very talkative in general, with anyone. Thing is people say try and get to know him better, find out his favourite music etc. Thing is IVE KNOWN HIM OVER 2 YEARS! so i know all about him its just we never spoke much alone when we were in class together and now i never know what to say. Ive known him long enough but i just never no what to say because hes not very talkative back.Btw please understand yes i really like him but even that took out of the equation i still dont know how to talk to him very easily. i too am quite shy so please dont say im wasting my time, if he wanted me he would talk back because its not like that. Im asking as a friend not as a "im trying to get him" it would make me the happiest girl ever if i could but honestly i just would like to talk to him more but i just cant keep the conversation flowing. I dont know how! :(
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2010):
If you want to bond with a man, you need to do it whilst doing something, such as going out. Men don't tend to do chat alone. We bond over talking and doing something at the same time. So if you want to get to know him more, suggest you both meet up and do something together. A man's actions say it all, so get to know him whilst doing something you both enjoy. Then you'll have something to talk abut after.
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