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writes: This might sound childish, but its not. I've just broken up with my ex, and part of the reason for breaking up was sheer insecurity on my part - I got upset because I felt I looked the worst out of all his female friends, and my confidence just spiralled downwards from there..Now, I want my confidence back. I'm pretty short on cash unfortunately so I can't go out and buy stunning, impressive clothes..How can I make him at least a little interested in me? I know it seems childish, but I just want to feel 'looked at' again by him. I want to feel as attractive as his other female friends.Please please help.
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reader, sleepyhead22  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 I hope it works for you and i'm ganna try it too cuz i feel the same way and i miss my ex like crazy !
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): hey you dont sound childish at all, everyone wants to impress the person they have just ended things with. This is because you want them to want you back, and you want the attention. Honestly though he should like you for you not your appearance. But you should show a little cleavage, wear pants that compliment your ass. And if you are near him and you know he is looking at you, talk to another boy in front of his face, that will get him jelous
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reader, Jmo +, writes (18 March 2008):
 It's not about expensive clothes when it comes to confidence. I swear, giving off the illusion of confidence even if you have to take a "fake it 'till you make it" approach for a while will not only make you look hot as hell but feel hot as hell as well. In the meantime maybe you could make a small change in your appearance as a step towards the new confident you (yea I know that sounds cheesy). Sometimes when I'm feeling kinda shitty, I cut my hair or dye it a different color. I'm not necessarily saying that would work for you but sometimes doing something different can make you feel as though you've been renewed and in turn, boost your self-esteem. And don't worry, you don't sound childish. We all have times like this.
-Jmo
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