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writes:Hey...So there's this guy at my work who I have a bit of a soft spot for and last year he would always sort of flirt with everyone in the office (although he is married) and he flirted with me last year too. And that was after my "friend" went and told him what I thought of him....But now, this year, everyone including him thinks I don't "like" him anymore and he also doesn't flirt anymore.I just want to have a bit of fun with him and flirt a little, so how can I subtly hint that I like him a little, have fun together and flirt?!Please be specific: What to say and what do, body language and stuff. I am hopeless at this!Many thanks x
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reader, SadieB  +, writes (1 July 2008):
I could give you lots of tips but why waste them on a married man who with a penchant for underage girls? Although maybe the reason he is keeping his distance is that he found out you like him and realised his behaviour towards you was inappropriate. Don't you have any regard for his wife? Perhaps you should concentrate on finding a BOY (and a single one at that)to flirt with. Best regards x
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (1 July 2008):
 Body language is key when flirting.
A good thing to remember is to touch - touch him on the arm, put an arm around him, give him hugs. Touching a guy is one of the biggest indicators you can give.
As well as this, make sure your body language is 'open'. By this I mean, don't cross your arms when you talk you him. When you sit next to him, cross your legs towards him rather than away from him. Basically, don't 'close' yourself off, or make it look like you are.
A lot of the rest of flirting is silly teasing, jokes, etc - it'll come to you, it's not hard.
Good luck!
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