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writes:Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok because i didn't realize i liked her until the latter half of the year, so about the end of March she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but from what i gathered she didn't seem too upset about it (i could be wrong though). Anyway once she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend i really wanted to ask her out but i didn't for a number of reasons 1) we were close to final exams 2) i was worried that she only saw us as friends because we had walked to class together sometimes (just the two of us) and i would usually ask her if she wanted to join my roommate and i for dinner if i saw her sitting alone. So, now school is over and we are on summer vacation and i still want to ask her out but we live in different cities and likely won't see each other until September, but i have her on Facebook, so how can i ask her to get together in September without making it look like im asking her out through Facebook/email?Any Help is appreciatedThanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Hey,I train men to pick up women for a living and I think that it is worth reading up on the following. Just search google.You have two choices1) Just go for it and ask her out based on hope that she feels the same way2) Read up on building attraction in a scientific way, Follow the method systematically and be secure in the fact you have done everything in your power to improve your chances.If you choose option two. Research the following1- Mystery Method2- Type "Watch the pick up artist online"3- The Pick up artist forum website http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com It is unlikely that you will get rejected in the traditional way which is " I just see you as friends"If you follow the method then you will be able to spot the subconcious signs that will reveal that she wants to go further along the process. If you dont spot the signals and she doesnt pass the compliance tests which you will learn about then you wont go out on a limb only to get shot down which can harm your confidence.UKLifecoach
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): email her. ask her for her phone number. call her. ask her out on a date now. go to her city and pick her up, and take her out. before september... life happens during the summer too. life happens when there is no facebook. people did this for millennia before online networking. it isn't rocket science. hell, it is really no harder than overcoming your social phobias. like paul mccartney sang - you have found her, go out and get her!
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